Relationships

I get a lot of relationship queries from people all over the world.  We all want to know more about where our lives are at and what steps we should take next.  It can be a very confusing world, when it comes to love...

What's interesting is that many answers that I pass on are about women, in particular, learning independence before they fall into a stable relationship.  This seems to be really important right now, as the shifts of energy in our universe are bringing this to a place of importance.

While I'm not advocating that we all stop hoping for a new relationship.  I am saying that now would be a good time to ask yourself why you are not with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.  And if you are with someone but not happy, to ask yourself what might be going on within you?  Is the universe asking you ask questions about who you want to be within a relationship?

There are a couple of things you can do now:

1. Give yourself time to sort through what you are feeling at the moment.  Is there need involved? Are you not getting what you want - either a partner, or a partner who doesn't make you happy?
2. Let yourself feel what you feel - disappointment, fear, lack of love, need... all these things are really important for you to know.  These are the types of things that, when trapped inside you, attract the wrong type of person into your life.
3. Write down all the things you want form a partner - whether you are with someone or not.
4. If you are not with a partner, hand this list over to the Healing Angels or your Spirit Guides and ask them to take care of it. Then be patient.  If you want good in your life you need to be in a vibration of good energy - this can take some time to build up.  The Angels will take care of it for you, but don't expect miracles overnight. Expect to be healed and creating an energy that will help you build a magnificent relationship with someone in coming months.
5. If you have a partner ensure that all the things you love about this person are on the list.  If there are things that don't resonate well with you, make another list of these things.  Hand both over to your Angels or Guides and allow them to bring the answers to you.  They will help you decide what you need to do now - possibly it's learning to ask for what you want from life, rather than accepting what you are given.

All these things will help bring clarity to your mind and peace to your heart.

The universe is changing rapidly.  In the past many people have settled for less than they want.  Women in particular were not shown how to be independent, but there is a deeper drive of energy now that is allow people to question their choices, their feelings and begin to build a better relationship with themselves. This is what independence is - acceptance of self without need.

The energy of many new beings is now coming down to Earth - they want you to be healed to the fullest of your capacity, to build your own life and your own perceptions of life.  The reason that so many women are being asked to find themselves before a relationship is that they have not, ever, in the past been allowed the space to speak of themselves outside of men.  They want more now and are asking to be better partners in relationships through this step of independence.

I hope you find this information useful, as it guides you as I see life playing out around me.  The people who come to this site and ask for information are those who are living out life right now.  There is much hope for everyone and I hope you can find this within your hearts too.

Warm wishes,

Monique

& the Healing Angels.