Growth and change is what 'healing' is all about...
Today's blog post is about challenging yourself to overcome that thought of 'it's too hard to change this!'
Most of us are pretty aware of what going wrong in our lives, but we can also be pretty good at denying ourselves the space to heal, thinking that it's too hard to go into that part of ourselves and shed a little Light upon it.
Below is a message, channeled from the Healing Angels, about overcoming this:
"Welcome dear friends, we note that many of you reading these blog posts are very adept at denying healing, attracting the wrong type of healing, and not seeing clearly enough just who you are inviting in to heal you (are they really right for you?).
This is quite a reflection of life generally for Humanity...
Many of you simply do not see who you are inviting into your lives, what you really want or who can provide it to you. You walk blindly and trust people who have not yet proven themselves to you. You may want to believe them and therefore don't look deeply enough to see if they are who they say they are. You then wind up disappointed, scared and frustrated - reaffirming to yourself just how hard it to is heal!
Though we know that you want people to be trustworthy, it is simply the space of evolution that you are in right now - not everyone has your best intentions in mind. Not everyone is who you want them to be. Therefore you must be careful who you allow in. We want you to know that it's ok to not want particular people in your life once you see how they really view life, and to walk away from situations that harm you, rather than help you.
It is a common phenomena that humanity allows itself to be walked over, to have their emotions to be denied, their needs to be ignored - when they are not looking carefully at who is in their life, but looking instead at their own neediness. Humanity has been taught to be needy, and yet you turn to healers and other helpers in life to assure you that you have everything you want. When they do not reflect this need back to you, but operate from their own space of neediness you can become quite bitter and angry at the world around you - it's just too hard, you say!
How many times have you gone to a parents, likely as a child, for the easing of a pain, only to find that they do not do what you want or need them to do? How many times was it reaffirmed to you that the person you needed most was just not there for you? You belittle yourself later in life, by assuming that because there was no one there for you earlier, there wont be now. This creates the subconscious space for you to reaffirm and reaffirm again that no one can help you - you just keep on attracting those who cannot help you...
We write this message today because we need you to see yourself more clearly. The purpose of this site is to heal your heart, to open up your life and to accept the graciousness of who you are - to live freely, that is, and to find fulfillment. Yet that is impossible when you are not looking at your life clearly, when you are denying the truth of your situation or just not wanting to see your 'bad' bits. That is, the bits of you that you just don't like very much. And, instead, wanting someone to come along and fix you.
Those of you who read our messages and follow our 'brand' of healing, or our particular views on life, know that there is more to life than that limitation of thinking that you have to suffer under the weight of your own issues. If you have ever given up on yourself you will know the pain of suffering that this creates... are you suffering now? Or do you want to heal?
If you want to heal you will need to change your mind about who can help you and how.
Ask us right now to help you attract the healer that can actually change you and not focus only on themselves!!
Your friends, the Healing Angels"